Controlling the Edge

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I didn’t lose my edge.
I lost my urgency to explain myself.

I stopped rushing to be understood.
Stopped defending my truth.
Stopped bleeding energy into conversations that were never meant to hold it.

Now I choose where my edge goes.
Who earns my clarity.
What deserves my fire.

That’s not softness.
That’s precision.

— Untethered Warrior

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